When I say or write something I don't make it as an advice structure. I don't care what you think I need to do unless I'm working with you. I don't care what people say I need to be or who I am. I respect the reader and viewer in the same regard. I don't push you to do anything that you do not feel is right and I sure as hell don't expect you to like anything I make or write. If you're traditional be it. If you are a little bit rebellious have your reason for it. If you are nit picky, The worlds full of jobs for you. The last thing the world needs is a printed manual on how to be a perfect square, plopped in a wall of other perfect squares.They like to chew at each others foundation and they can see that their own structure isn't going to last forever.
A person is born, raised and grouped with many unknown variables. I believe that the way you are formed is by the people around you, the assets you have and your quality of life. There is no absolute structure that can bring you to that goal, it is all by how welling your are to succeed at your goal and the luck of the draw. The rest of the factors in your life you have no control in they form your belief structure due to negative and positive reactions you have with society and social circles. That is why psychology is studied and fully utilized and why advice from a stranger is almost always useless, unless it is very broad.